I can’t even take simple compliments directed to my appearance without feeling some manner of anxiety. Especially when it’s someone of the male gender. Coming off strong, being a heavy flirt makes me physically ill and sick to my stomach with anxiety. It isn’t just a choice, it’s a phobia.
Granted I’m 90% sure the ask was sent by a troll, but regardless, I’d rather you guys didn’t send me inappropriate things. For the most part, if it’s an honest and mature question I will answer it, regardless of if it makes me somewhat uncomfortable. But lewd and derogatory questions and asks will not be tolerated.
I don’t care if your a troll or not, please have some common curtsy. I know I am not the only victim who suffers from this phobia and I’d hope you’d also respect them as well. Having been molested at a young age I have lost most, if not all of my libido. I was asked yesterday if I masturbate and how often, I will be honest, my libido does flare up very rarely but it’s not really anyone’s business, and it’s much different then a normal person with an average sex drive.
So please, stop being a pervert and be respectful. If you really want to know about my sex life, my sexuality, my relationship, or any of those manner of things, ask in a mature manner. I understand that Asexuality is rare and for every asexual it’s different. I don’t mind attempting to educate you on my particular situation but I’d like it if I wasn’t purposely interrogated with horribly lewd and invasive questions.
Thank you. (sorry for the TMI)