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Journal Entry: Wed Apr 16, 2014, 1:20 PM
Because of a disturbingly sexual anon ask on tumblr I got last night, I’d like to discuss something rather personal to all of you that follow me here. I am asexual do to past trauma. I was molested at a very young age for a span of a year off and on. Sexual intercourse, physical attraction or touchy-feely anything isn’t just numb for me, it’s horrifying. It causes me discomfort and horrible anxiety.


I can’t even take simple compliments directed to my appearance without feeling some manner of anxiety. Especially when it’s someone of the male gender. Coming off strong, being a heavy flirt makes me physically ill and sick to my stomach with anxiety. It isn’t just a choice, it’s a phobia.

Granted I’m 90% sure the ask was sent by a troll, but regardless, I’d rather you guys didn’t send me inappropriate things. For the most part, if it’s an honest and mature question I will answer it, regardless of if it makes me somewhat uncomfortable. But lewd and derogatory questions and asks will not be tolerated. 

I don’t care if your a troll or not, please have some common curtsy. I know I am not the only victim who suffers from this phobia and I’d hope you’d also respect them as well. Having been molested at a young age I have lost most, if not all of my libido. I was asked yesterday if I masturbate and how often, I will be honest, my libido does flare up very rarely but it’s not really anyone’s business, and it’s much different then a normal person with an average sex drive.

So please, stop being a pervert and be respectful. If you really want to know about my sex life, my sexuality, my relationship, or any of those manner of things, ask in a mature manner. I understand that Asexuality is rare and for every asexual it’s different. I don’t mind attempting to educate you on my particular situation but I’d like it if I wasn’t purposely interrogated with horribly lewd and invasive questions.

Thank you. (sorry for the TMI)



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:iconstardragon77:
Just out of curiosity, have you thought of trying a Doctor Who cosplay?  I ask because I can definitely see you either doing the Tenth (David Tennant) version or the Eleventh (Matt Smith) version. 
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ezysummers Apr 7, 2014   Filmographer
Idk why, but you remind me of Katy Perry somehow xD You're awesome dear! I see you've grown to one hell of a cosplayer <3
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DominantMonochrome Apr 3, 2014  New member Student General Artist
your cosplay is so cool!!! :D
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tsunderellaa Mar 26, 2014  New member Professional Writer
hi mitzy! 
it's that sonia nevermind who hung out with kiki and brinni at ala uvu
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Accado Mar 25, 2014  Student Interface Designer
Thanks for the watch =D
If you like my work, you may like our videos! here is the link => www.youtube.com/user/WonderNee…
and my FB cosplay page => www.facebook.com/AccadoCosplay…

Thanks again o/
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